From the time I can remember, my mommie always insisted on our family making the beds in the morning. I did not have a problem or question this morning ritual.

What I did not realize at the time was the lesson she was teaching. I hardly remember a time of seeing her bed unmade.

As I grew into a teenager, I began to rebel a bit and tried to get out of this simple task. Needless to say, that did not get too far. This was not the teenage battle I felt I needed to fight.

As I grew into womanhood and started my own family, I continued to make my bed every morning. I also straightened the cribs and folded the blankets. This always gave me a since of accomplishment.

A few years ago, my oldest son Honda spoke to me about a Naval Officer whom inspired him while on his own journey through the Marine Corps. William H. McRaven, retired United States Navy four-star admiral and former Navy Seal.

He wrote an inspirational book titled “Make Your Bed” about his Naval Seal Training. He also gave a famous speech at the 2014 Commencement on the University of Texas.

The speech titled, “If You Want to Change the World, Make Your Bed.”

I watched with my son on that day many years ago. During my quest for sobriety I came across the speech and borrowed the book from my local library.

I hope this will inspire you as well.

Thanks mommie!